“Show Some Love” podcast hosted by LA based broadcaster and PR guru Tallie Spencer returns this week featuring R&B singer Emaza Dilan, former member of Ceraadi.
Diving into Emaza’s new music, dating in the public eye and her label deal with Jason Duerlo going south, this episode is jam packed with hot topics.
If you don’t know, let Emaza reintroduce herself. She is a singer, influencer, choreographer and a former member of the girl group Ceraadi. However, after a public falling out with her sisters, Emaza is now a solo artist, who is in charge of her own creativity. She describes her music style as a “jukebox” as she likes to touch different sounds, from dance, country, hip-hop and of course R&B.
Private vs Public on Social Media
Now this is a big topic on whether or not you should be public with your relationships on social media. As it can be embarrassing to have to go back and delete all your photos of your former significant other after the break up.
Emaza said she is really private when it comes to her relationships. When asked how she felt about posting her other half on the gram, she said, “You have to make sure that person is on the same wavelength as you. There’s understanding, there’s trust, there’s faithfulness, because being on social media there are a lot of temptations.”
Both ladies share their experiences of being in a public social relationship and after the break up, there were a lot of deleted pictures and emotions attached to all the memories. Tallie says, “Instagram has one public relationship out of me.” Next time “I will maybe post his glass of wine with his pinky finger in the corner as my hard launch”. Emaza added to the conversation that once you make it public you open yourself up to the DMs about your relationship and it just becomes drama.
Tallie asks “what are the things needed for you to go public with them today, would you ever do it? And what boxes does he have to check”? Emaza says, “He has to be a man, not a boy, not a guy but a man. That you have seen his habits … past the 6 month mark, as they can still keep up trying to be someone that they’re not”. But it sounds like the ladies agree that public social media relationships are not for them.
The Hard Times Always Bring Trumpet Chapters
Emaza continues to detail the reason why Ceraadi broke up and the type of inspiring messages she receives as she continues on the journey of being an independent artist.
“A lot of people were telling me your fight, even, you’re still fighting it, pushes me to keep on going.”.
Emaza has a love for her fans/ supporters that runs deep, as the path she is carving out for herself, is one that is all her own. She continues to detail her experience with her former label, owned by Jason Duerlo, as a hostel environment. He was yelling at her and neglecting her as an artist. She adds to the story, telling about the time where she had a meeting and a girl walked in and said, “how did you get here? And Emaza said, Jason Duelo knew me from the group. What about you? And the girl in turn said, “oh he’s trying to be on some f***k s***t.”
“It’s easy to go ahead and do that to get in the room, but I’m over here, blood, sweat and tears. And some girl just gets to walk up in here because…. I’m not doing that.”
“Imagine trying to stay focused the whole entire time, and you are in an industry full of wolves.”
New Music
This episode was filled with tons of stories and personal experiences Emaza Dilan has gone through in her career so far. She has new music out right now called “Energy Vampires” which talks about “how people in the industry will suck you dry of your energy”.
And she might be dropping another single on March 15 called “Espeniage”.
So keep your eyes out for Emaza Dilon and stream her music on all streaming platforms.